Focus Makes New Year’s Resolutions Stick
When the calendar turns to January 1, 2010, many of us will choose goals for the New Year. Patricia M. Amborn, M.S.M., educator, wellness author, and expert for TOPS Club, Inc. (Take Off Pounds Sensibly), said New Year’s resolutions offer a fresh start for those with self-improvement intentions.
“With a resolution, it’s a commitment to take care of what you value,” Amborn shared. “Start with self-love. If you value yourself, you will make a concerted effort to take care of yourself.”
When forming individual New Year’s resolutions, start by dreaming a little. Amborn cited research that shows people are most productive and creative when relaxed. She suggests taking advantage of a daydream state to visualize weight-loss success.
To be most effective, she recommended writing resolutions down. “Scientists have proven that when you write something down in the present tense, your brain thinks you’ve already done it, and believes it. For example, ‘I am eating better. I am exercising more. I am getting appropriate rest,’” Amborn explained.
Change, even positive, can be overwhelming, so start small, she advised. One way to kick off a new resolution might be to assertively state it to your household. Your announcement could be as simple as, “I want to make 2010 a healthy year.” List expectations of how family members can support this goal. Amborn suggested that a week or two later, repeat the statement. “Those words sound assertive and represent boundaries and expectations being established.”
Develop an Action Plan
Define core values as you work to set and attain goals. Amborn said that one way to define your values is to visualize yourself at the end of your life, thinking of the legacy you want to leave behind. 2010 is a fresh start. Ask yourself: How do I direct myself to build a foundation for my legacy? The action plan has to become specific.
To develop a plan of action, set a weight-loss goal and establish it as a priority. Recognize obstacles and double resistance to them. Build determination. For example, if pressured to eat tempting, high-calorie treats, say, “Thanks, but I’m not hungry right now.” Visualize saying this in present tense, and rehearse turning down tempting holiday food.
Take Concrete Steps
Practice new “small picture” habits while keeping a focus on the “big picture,” to fuel motivation. Make the following changes that can add up to big improvements by the end of the year.
- Place workout gear by the front door to minimize excuses about exercising.
- Find a supportive workout buddy who has also resolved to live a healthier lifestyle.
- Make regular appointments with each other to exercise.
- Maintain a food log and keep track of everything eaten during the day to reflect on your eating habits and assess your diet.
- Toss out or give away treats from the holidays that are lingering in the house.
- Post a “healthy living” tally on the refrigerator door. List pounds lost, miles walked, inches lost, and other measurable progress. It’s a powerful reminder of what’s been accomplished and a deterrent to raiding the refrigerator.
In addition, follow these recommendations from Amborn to make your resolutions stick and promote motivation.
- Don’t mourn the past when weight was gained. It wastes time to be mired in regrets. Simply start your 2010 action plan.
- As weight comes off, look for hidden rewards. Every few pounds will yield additional health benefits.
- Confront negative beliefs held by both you and others. Each of us has “a rebel inside us” who urges us to give in to temptations. Even if we failed in the past, it doesn’t necessarily mean we’ll fail again.
- Take responsibility for each day. Reflect on how the day went. If you ate too much food, recognize it, move on, and plan for tomorrow.
“Remember this is for your benefit. You have to love yourself enough to do it,” Amborn siad. “It’s about the kind of life you want to live in the new year and in the years ahead.”
TOPS Club Inc. (Take Off Pounds Sensibly), the original, nonprofit weight-loss education and support organization, was established more than 61 years ago to champion weight-loss support and success. Founded and headquartered in Milwaukee, Wis., TOPS promotes successful weight management with a philosophy that combines healthy eating, regular exercise, wellness education, and support from others at weekly chapter meetings. TOPS has about 170,000 members in nearly 10,000 chapters throughout the United States and Canada, and several chapters in Europe. Visitors are welcome to attend their first TOPS meeting free of charge. To find a local chapter, view www.tops.org or call 800.932.8677.