Savvy Style: Shoes, Glorious Shoes!
By Jan Ross ~
I wouldn’t want you to think that I might possibly like shoes, but I have an entire shoe closet. That’s right. A shoe closet. I was just re-watching the second “Sex in the City” movie and I was amused and just a teeny bit smug when Carrie was gloating over her fabulous closet because seriously? She had clothes and shoes in there.
Oh, Carrie. Eat your heart out over my shoe closet.
Actually, the only reason I have a shoe closet is because my kids are grown and gone and I have relegated my husband to one closet in the house and taken over all the others. Honestly, how much closet space does a guy need? A few shirts, some pants, maybe a suit or two. And as far as his shoes? Picture me laughing out loud right this minute. He might have five pairs. Six if you count those dress shoes that he only wears about once a year. Whereas I? Have a lot of shoes.
I have never actually counted my shoes but I have … a lot. I have a lot more summer shoes than winter shoes because, honestly, aren’t summer shoes so much cuter? You really can’t get away with bright yellow shoes or polka dot shoes in the winter but sandals? Oh, yeah.
I love shoes. The great thing about shoes is … wait. There are a lot of great things about shoes.
- If you are having a fat day, you can still buy shoes. You know those days when everything you try on makes you look fat? It has nothing to do with that big lunch you just ate at “Olive Garden,” I’m sure. But no matter how fat you are looking, you can always buy shoes. Lovely, beautiful, fabulous shoes.
- Shoes can beautify any outfit. You know that blue dress you bought because it was on sale and it fits great but it’s kinda … blah. Just put on those blue, green and yellow striped slides with the rhinestone butterfly on the toes (you know the ones I mean) and suddenly your dress has gone from blah to fabulous.
- You can have the same color shoes in different styles. I realize you already have some turquoise sandals but you know what? These turquoise sandals are completely different and it’s OK to buy them. My husband still does not understand this concept. He thinks that tall brown boots and short brown boots are the same. As if.
- Great shoes give you confidence. Speaking at a conference and feeling some of those pre-conference butterflies? Slip on some fabulous shoes and you’ll feel much better. Just make sure you practice walking in them if they have very high heels and put some tape on the bottom if they are slippery new. Confidence is out the window if you fall on your ass on the stage.
- Shoes do not have to be expensive. One of the most fabulous pairs of shoes I own is a pair of black and white polka dot slides. They are seriously the cutest things you have ever seen. In fact, I fell in love with them so deep and hard that I actually bought a back-up pair which I have since decided to give to a friend. Who knew how hard it would be to wear out a pair of black and white polka dot slides? They came from Wal-mart and cost about $10. Who needs Jimmy Choo?
- Shoes can help you decide if you like someone. Cute shoes or no cute shoes? Friendships have been based on less.
- Shoes set off your pedicure. You might have the most darling pedicure of all time, but if you are not wearing cute shoes, nobody is going to be impressed. And if your shoes color-coordinate with your pedicure? Serious shoe points.
- If the shoe fits, buy it in every color. Years ago, I bought two pairs of perfectly darling, lace-up short boots in brown and black. They had a navy pair and I made the ultimate shoe faux pas and decided I didn’t need them. I have thought about those navy boots a thousand times. If only I had bought them. If only. But them if you love them!
- Shoes do not judge you. Stopping at “Dairy Queen” for a blizzard on your way home and eating the entire thing in your car, then throwing away the cup? Your shoes don’t care. They still look fabulous. The situation is completely fictitious, by the way. We writers think of things all the time that never actually happened. Never. Happened.
- Only your girlfriends understand the shoe mania. Guys will never, ever understand why we need so many shoes. So many colors. So many styles. Never.
Shoes. I think I might need to go shopping right now. I still don’t have a pair of light purple, high heeled sandals to complete my collection. And I need them.
Jan Ross is a freelance writer, specializing in travel writing and has a blog at http://www.wanderlustwonder.com/ and she owns a lot of shoes. A LOT.
Savvy Style: Pony Up and Find the Perfect Hairstyle
By Jan Ross ~
The other night, my husband came home and declared … gently (he is a wise man) that it might be nice to see a hairstyle other than a ponytail on my head. Instead of getting annoyed, I sagely nodded my (ponytailed) head and figured I was lucky he was not mentioning the ubiquitous sleeping pants and tee shirt ensemble.
Because he was right. A couple of years ago, I decided I wanted long hair again – long, long hair like I used to have in high school and college. I love it. And so does he. But it does require a bit of a time investment. And with all the exercise classes, diligently writing away on articles such as this one and a teensy bit of shopping, lunches out and drinks with the girls, that time is not always available. However, I do occasionally come up with a different hairstyle – and have made a little more effort to do so for him once in a while instead of just when heading out the door for lunch with the girls. So, here’s what I do with the long mop of hair I have hanging down my back.
- Ponytails. Well, yeah. They still make an appearance. But I take a little more care with them now. Curl the ends with a flat iron (and if you don’t have a flat iron, go buy one right this minute because they are completely fabulous), pull down a few tendrils and maybe tease up the front a bit or even take a piece of hair and twist it around the pony tail holder and you have a hairstyle instead of just a pony tail. Even though technically it’s still a pony tail. And maybe if I put on something besides sleeping pants, he won’t notice the regular pony tail anyway.
- Buns. Basically a pony tail that you have expended a little extra effort on, a bun can be as dressy or as casual as you like. Put it up high or very low on your neck or even over on the side. Braid it before you bun it and you have a completely different look. And if you call it a chignon, you get serious hair credit.
- Braids. I don’t think you are going to want to go the two-braid route, unless you want to look like Heidi, but fix one braid hanging down your back with big hoop earrings and you have a whole gypsy look going on. Pull your hair over on one side and braid it hanging down in the front for a completely different look. Or even take a couple of braids and wrap them across your head like a headband. If you can make this look work, go for it.
- Part Up/Part Down. A more hair-savvy person would probably have a better name for this, but it’s when you take part of your hair up in a mini-pony tail or braid and let the rest hang down in back. It’s the perfect compromise – you hair is out of your face but still down so it’s not technically a pony tail. A win-win for both of you.
- Getting fancy. When I have time and the inclination, I mess around and can come up with some different styles like a French Twist, French Braid (do the French do a lot with their hair or what? Why so many French hairstyles?), or even just a lot of curls just cascading down my back which requires a great expenditure of time and effort but Damn I look good.
- Hair Accoutrements. I’m a little embarrassed to tell you that I have an entire drawer devoted to hair devices. I have a whole closet devoted to shoes as well but that’s a whole other topic. If you are going to do a pony tail, I say do it with a leopard print scrunchie. Yes, even though Carrie in “Sex in the City” was horrified by the idea of a scrunchie, I have a whole bag of them. And I use them often. Along with headbands, barrettes, clips, and hairpins.
- Fancy Hair Accoutrements. When we were in Hawaii last year, one of the things I loved the most, aside from fresh pineapple OMG fresh pineapple was the flowers all the women were wearing in their hair. I immediately bought several beautiful flower barrettes and wore them the entire time we were there. And I never stopped, even when we returned home. There is no hairstyle that does not benefit from some fake flowers stuck in it, especially in the summer when you are wearing a sundress and eating on a patio. Possibly eating fresh pineapple.
- Even Fancier Hair Accoutrements. Ooooh, sparkly! A bun excuse me a chignon is perfectly lovely by itself but stick some sparky hairpins in it and you have taken it up a level that fancies up your LBD.
- And The Basics. My hair may be in a ponytail but it’s clean, shiny and in great condition. I have every hair product known to woman and use them often, experimenting to find the ones that make my hair look its best. Try hair masks, leave-in conditioners, mousse, gel, wax, spray until you find what works for you. It’s been my experience that some of the cheap hair stuff is just about as good as the very expensive products, so go wild.
- And Even More Basic. Your hair stylist is your friend. Unless she gives you a frizzy perm in which case you should never darken her door again. Talk to her about style, color, cut and then listen to her. She sees a lot of heads of hair and probably knows what is going to look good on you. Then pay regular visits. Even long hair needs a trim to keep it looking smooth and pretty.
Good luck with your hair. Now, give me a minute. I need to do something about this ponytail before he gets home.
Jan Ross is a freelance writer who specializes in travel writing and maintains a travel blog at http://www.wanderlustwonder.com/. She spend a lot of time taking care of her hair and an inordinate amount of time in a ponytail.
Savvy Style: Yes, You Can Wear That Bathing Suit, But Should You?
By Jan Ross ~
I tried not to visibly cringe as the rather large woman with two, no make that three rolls of pudge between the top of her bikini and the bottom strolled by the pool of my cruise ship. She was not the first woman I would see on my Caribbean cruise dressed in an inappropriate bathing suit and she would not be the last. It was not the bikini itself – it was quite darling and it actually fit. Although why the manufacturer would make one quite that large befuddles me. It was not her age – you could be 70 and still look good in a bikini.
It was the rather obvious fact (to everyone else except the wearer, apparently) that the bikini was quite simply very, very unflattering. A well-fitting one piece bathing suit in a beautiful color or print would have looked so much better. Why do so many women do this to themselves? Here’s why and what to do about it. At least for yourself. Because I can’t think of any way to walk to up to a total stranger and tell them the bikini is absolutely not the way to go.
- That high school hairstyle. Remember that hairstyle you had in high school? You should not have that same hairstyle today. Same thing goes for that bikini. You may have worn one back in high school but unless you are one of those women (and can we have a big raspberry for them, thankyouverymuch) who have maintained your weight and your figure for all these years, you should not be wearing one now.
- Throw away those magazines. You know the ones I mean. The ones that tell you what bathing suit fits your style to make your boobs look larger/small, your hips larger/smaller, your tummy flat, and your waist as miniscule as Scarlett O’Hara. They lie. They are in the business of selling products and advertising and those companies provide both for their magazines.
- Shopping. My best advice about shopping for a new bathing suit is to take along a loving friend or family member who will give you the unvarnished truth about what looks good on you. Then take their advice and step away from the bikinis. Just step away.
- Mirror. For God’s sake, look in the dressing room mirror. Really study yourself. Now turn sideways. Yes, it’s difficult but you have to do it. How does your tummy really look in that suit? Are your boobs smushed and flat or nicely supported? Does the bathing suit cover your complete butt or just part of it?
- Work It. Now be realistic because you are not going to just stand there with your hand on your hip, posing prettily the entire time you are the pool/beach/insert requisite bathing suit scenario here. You are going to move around. So, bend and stretch and even sit down. Still comfortable? Still flattering? Buy it.
- Price is no object. Haven’t you always wanted to say that? Well, in this case, it is true. In general, bathing suits are expensive but a good one is worth any price. Don’t even look at the price tag until you have picked the perfect suit. Then, try not to gasp but suck it up and act cool as you take it to the register. You will never regret purchasing a very good, very expensive bathing suit. How many cheap, ill-fitting bathing suits do you have in that drawer that you don’t wear? I thought so.
- Disregard #6. Inexpensive and great bathing suits are actually available. I have a completely fabulous bathing suit that I bought at Walmart last year – in fact, I just went back and ordered it in a different color. If it fits and is completely fabulous in every way, forget the price. Buy it.
- Work It. Now you have the perfect bathing suit that looks great and fits great. Don’t forget the accoutrements that will really turn heads. A darling cover-up, a matching straw hat, the perfect little sandals – these will take that pretty suit and transform your appearance up to beautiful.
- Change It. If you are determined to wear that bikini, then change your body. It’s not easy but it’s possible. Exercise and diet are the magic words. There are no shortcuts. Just do it. I’m not saying I can do it, but I’m sure you can.
- Take Care of It. I always rinse out my bathing suits whether I am swimming in a pool or at the beach. Chlorine can fade and damage your fabulous bathing suit. Sun and sand can ruin it. Use plain tap water or add a little Woolite, then hang it up to dry and they will stay nice for years.
Jan Ross is a travel writer who only wears beautiful, well-fitting, and flattering bathing suits. Or, at least nobody has ever had the nerve to tell her any different. She also has a travel blog at: http://www.wanderlustwonder.com/.
Savvy Style: Everything I Know about Fashion, I Learned at T.J. Maxx
By Jan Ross ~
Is there anyplace more completely fabulous than T.J. Maxx? Where else can you find a kicky, hot pink bracelet, the perfect discontinued eyeshadow, last season’s still charming mauve purse and the perfect black cashmere cardigan all in one location? And for great prices?
However, T.J. Maxx is not the perfect mistress. She is a difficult, exacting mistress who requires time and dedication. She is not to be visited lightly with only a few minutes to spare. She will not be toyed with. Much like the rest of we fashion divas.
But the rewards make all that time spent digging through racks of clothes and trying on top after top after top until you find the perfectly fitted, azure wonder worthwhile. The Maxx has some fashion lessons for us. Some important fashion life lessons. Read carefully. Then apply at your local store.
1. That color is not for me. Maybe not. But maybe so. That weird mauvy, pinky, taupy color that looks odd on the hanger may be the perfect color on you. If it’s darling and reasonably priced, give it a try.
2. I can’t wear that size. Those clothes have made it to The Maxx for some reason. Maybe the store just had too many of them. But maybe the sizing is wrong. Obviously, you can’t try on everything in the store, but check out the sizes above and below what you normally wear. You might be surprised. And think how thrilled you will be when you are wearing a size smaller than you normally do. We say we don’t care what the size is as long as it fits and looks great. This is a lie we tell ourselves. Size matters. When the size is smaller than we normally wear, that is.
3. I already have a black sweater/white blouse/magenta sandals. Doesn’t matter. If it’s perfect, buy it. I won’t even get into the story of the perfect navy walking shorts I didn’t buy because I already had a pair of navy shorts and then the dry cleaner ruined my fabulous shorts and I didn’t have a pair because I didn’t buy the perfect navy walking shorts as a back-up. A perfect fashion back-up is never a mistake. Never.
4. That dress/top/pair of pants is kinda ugly. If there is a remote possibility that they might look different on you, try them on. Things that look strange on the hanger might look completely different when tried on. Except that dress with the huge red roses on it, of course. Nothing is going to help that fashion disaster.
5. It’s perfect except it’s too long/gaps at the waist/is a little too big. If it’s perfect in every other way and very reasonably priced, it might be worth having it altered to fit. Some department store alteration departments will alter items that were not bought in the store – I know the Lazarus near me will do this. Check it out.
6. Which color should I buy? That perfectly darling cardigan that comes in white, teal and pale pink? Buy it. Every single one. My fashion mantra is “if it fits, looks great and is reasonably priced – buy it in every color.” You will never be sorry you bought every color in something you love. You will only be sorry when you didn’t and you go back and they are all sold out. I’m telling you. Buy it.
7. This is from last season. Well. Unless it’s completely and totally trendy or you are in the habit of buying the new designer line every year, it’s probably fine. Except for shrugs. Never buy a shrug. Those things are hideous.
8. It’s not very practical. Practical?? We are talking about fashion here. Is it darling? Buy it.
9. I’m not sure it’s my style. Refer to #8.
10. But I just went to The Maxx last week. Last week? The Maxx gets new things in every day. Get thee there.
As soon as humanly possible.
Jan Ross is a freelance writer and travel blogger at: http://www.wanderlustwonder.com/ . When she is not writing or traveling, she is shopping. Often at T.J. Maxx.
Savvy Style: Seven Ways to Create Your Style Your Way
By Natalie Jobity ~
Style is ultimately about knowing yourself and expressing who you are. It’s about being comfortable in your own skin. Despite the occasion or the event, the stylish woman seems to have that special charisma that commands attention. Confidence is the hallmark of having true style.
Women often ask me how they can begin to tap into their style persona. I advise them to ask themselves some honest questions: What do you like? What makes you feel good? Whose style do you admire and why? What image would you like to project? In addition to looking at these answers for inspiration, there are seven universal style personalities that you can use as a guide. If you begin to discover yourself in one or more of these personas, your next step is to start ‘owning’ it.
The Romantic:
The “Romantic” is the type of woman who is truly feminine at heart. She wants her clothing to be understated yet fun and girlie so that her beauty can really be the focal point. Her closet may be filled with ruffled tops, soft jackets with bows as accents, lace blouses, and flowy skirts and dresses rather than pants. Her color preferences will be on the softer end of the spectrum, warm pinks, sky blue, aqua, coral, or salmon. She will likely prefer to wear shoes with heels than flats.
The Diva:
The “Diva” is the woman who wants to be in the spotlight. She may not be the most beautiful in the room but people gravitate towards her because she rocks her style and exudes confidence and charm. The Diva’s closet may be filled with bright colors, funky prints, exuberant designs with lots of flash and accessories that dazzle. She wants to be noticed and she wants to be the center of attention so she will go to the extremes of fashion if she needs to.
The Outdoorsy:
The “Outdoorsy” style woman projects a casual, laid back image, characterized by a friendly, approachable look. She’s wholesome, carefree and natural without being sloppy or lazy. Sporty typifies the ‘all American style’ of blue jeans and a button down. This woman’s closet is filled with relaxed separates, classic styles, and jeans and flats. She has minimal accessories because she does not like to spend too much time getting dressed up. Effortless and comfortable are her style watchwords.
The Traditionalist:
The “Traditionalist” is a woman who favors classic styles and projects a very traditional, conservative and business like image. She is practical and functional when it comes to her clothing. Her closet is filled with suits, classic silhouettes, very conservative styles and not much variation in color. She probably has a ‘uniform’ for her casual wardrobe. Being fashionable is not particularly important to her.
The Sophisticate:
The “Sophisticate” is a woman who values fashion as a status symbol. She projects a refined, stately and high maintenance image that is characterized by a cultivated and polished look. This woman will always look impeccably put together from head to toe. She invests in clothing and grooming because they are an important part of her lifestyle. Her closet is filled with timeless pieces from brand name designers, and clothing in the most luxurious fabrics. The Sophisticate values quality as much as she does style.
The Seductress:
This woman is very comfortable in her skin—so much so that she projects a sexy and provocative look. She exudes sensuality and is uninhibited in her fashion choices. She delights in figure contouring designs, and her closet will be filled with pieces that are exciting and designed to reveal and emphasize her sex appeal. She will own the highest heels, the shortest dresses, the most daring undergarments and she will use animal prints and cutouts as accents in her clothing. If she wears slacks they will be figure hugging.
The Eclectic
This woman thrives on the element of surprise and whimsy. The eclectic woman is free spirited and independent in her fashion choices. She wants to be the non-conformist and uses clothing to express her individuality. Her style may be hard to define because it’s so all about her. Her closet will be filled with period pieces, classics, trendy items –everything is fair game. It’s how she puts her ensembles together that makes her stand apart from the pack. This woman is likely to set her own fashion trends.
Whether you identified with one or more of these styles, the point is to use this guide to really establish a style persona that is distinctively yours. My tagline ‘Presence with a Purpose’ conveys that ability to project a sense of ease, poise or self-assurance; it is energy and an attitude. It can be magnetic. Go for it!
Natalie Jobity is the President of Élan Image Management, a premier image consulting firm, a bestselling author and sought-after speaker. She provides coaching and image consulting services to women internationally who are ready to own their spotlight. Natalie is the author of “Frumpy to Fabulous: Flaunting It’” For more information visit www.NatalieJobity.com. Click here for image to tips you can use everyday.
Savvy Style: Tina’s Tips for Looking Fabulous at Any Age
By Tina Sloan ~
Find a Hairdresser Who Likes You. You want to go to someone who genuinely wants you to be beautiful. A good hairdresser will keep you up-to-date, but knows you well enough not to give you a Duck’s Ass or some other cut that doesn’t suit your personality.
Avoid Snow White Syndrome. Women who keep coloring their hair dark tend to look ridiculous after a certain age. Your skin tone changes and lightens as you get older, and suddenly your former hair color becomes too harsh for your complexion. Recognize that if you have always been a brunette, you likely need to go lighter now, or at least get some highlights to frame your face (like Diane Keaton’s in Something’s Gotta Give).
ALWAYS Wear Makeup. Remember the story about bumping into an old boyfriend and trying to hide in the cantaloupes. Lauren Hutton makes wonderful beauty products for aging women; they are available online and come with an instructional DVD that provides some great anti-aging techniques and tricks. I also like Chantecaille and Bobbi Brown. I once met Bobbi Brown and she told me, “I make my products for your kind of woman.”
. . . But Don’t Overdo It. Nothing is less attractive than an older woman with bright pink cheeks. Plus, heavy makeup makes you look years older (and I think this is true as early as your thirties). At our age, less is more, so realize that you probably need to simplify your routine and start using more natural tones. If you’re not sure how to do this, get a makeup professional to help you.
Avoid Powder on Your Face. Powder makes you look dry and settles in the creases in your skin, making wrinkles more prominent and you look older. Foundation or base is great since we need to even our skin tone out (like I do). And today there are so many good products available for older skin. Many of them multitask, providing anti-aging ingredients along with an even skin tone and dewier skin.
Learn the Art of Contouring. With contouring, you’re putting a darker color on the places where you want to create more definition, such as your jaw line. A makeup professional, or Lauren Hutton’s instructional DVDs, can teach you how to do this.
Use White Around Your Eyes. The skin around the eyes thins as you get older, leaving you vulnerable to shadows and dark circles. Using white concealer on the inside corners and under your eyes will brighten your entire face and make you eyes look younger. Just make sure to blend it — mixing it with moisturizer if necessary — so you don’t look like startled jackrabbit.
Use an Eyelash Curler. Everyone should have an eyelash curler as there is no better way to open up your eyes and brighten your entire face, especially since the skin of the eyelid tends to thicken and droop over time. You can buy one for a few dollars at the drugstore. It will work best if you heat it before using it — simply run it under hot water or heat it with your blow-dryer. The words thicken and droop really upset me, but opening your eyes is kind of like a mini-face-lift!
Lighten Your Eyebrows. Much like your overall hair color, lighter brows are better as we age. You can lighten them with bleach and toner. To find the right shade of toner for your skin type, seek the advice of a professional, probably someone at your salon.
Get Your Teeth Whitened. When our teeth get yellowed, they age us tremendously, and coffee, tea, and red wine are all the culprits. You can get your teeth whitened by your dentist or use the at-home strips sold in drugstores, which do work, although not as well (but you can’t beat the price).
Accessorize. A pretty colored scarf or earrings or necklace can be a terrific way to liven up any outfit and announce to the world that you care about how you look. Accessories also work to camouflage our flaws: People will say, “Oh, what a pretty scarf!” and not, “Oh, she’s put on a few pounds.”
Find a Few “Uniforms” that Work for You. If you tend to just give in and throw on whatever shapeless, comfortable clothing is sitting on the chair, you are putting yourself at a disadvantage. You can avoid this and be chic anywhere, anytime by finding a few “looks” or combinations that work for you and wearing them often. For me, one uniform is beige or black slacks with a white shirt open, a blue blazer, a gorgeous chunky necklace, and big earrings — and pretty shoes, of course. You work it out and just keep wearing it, even when you are tempted to reach for the sweatpants and slippers. I find that when I’m dressed nicely, even if I’m just sitting at home, chances are I will find something exciting to do to make that outfit worthwhile.
The above is an excerpt from the book Changing Shoes: Getting Older -Not Old- with Style, Humor, and Grace by Tina Sloan. The above excerpt is a digitally scanned reproduction of text from print. Although this excerpt has been proofread, occasional errors may appear due to the scanning process. Please refer to the finished book for accuracy.
Copyright © 2011 Tina Sloan, author of Changing Shoes: Getting Older -Not Old- with Style, Humor, and Grace.
Author Bio
Tina Sloan, author of Changing Shoes: Getting Older – Not Old- with Style, Humor, and Grace, played the role of Nurse Lillian Raines on Guiding Light, which aired its final episode in 2009 after a seventy-two year run on radio and television. She has appeared on many other television shows, including Third Watch, and Law & Order: SVU, and in a variety of feature films, including The Brave One and Changing Lanes. She is currently shooting two feature films and touring nationally in her acclaimed one-woman show, Changing Shoes. She lives in New York with her husband, Steve McPherson. They have one son, Renny. For more information please visit http://www.changingshoes.com/ and follow the author on Facebook and Twitter.
Savvy Style: Follow a Style Icon’s Lead to be Fashion Forward at Any Age
Stylist, Jackie Conlin, gives her expert advice on how to acquire the chic, elegant, and effortless look of Lauren Hutton.
At 67 years old, actress and model, Lauren Hutton is still a thriving style icon. She has that particular elegance and grace that radiates through her fashion sense.
Hutton once said, “Fashion is what you are offered four times a year by designers and style is what you choose.”
San Francisco style consultant and fashion expert, Jackie Conlin, agrees with Hutton’s philosophy and provides five simple tips for achieving this type of classic, effortless style.
1. Embrace what makes you look unique! “Hutton never fixed the gap in her teeth – her self-acceptance became cultural acceptance. Find something about yourself that makes you stand out. Embrace that feature, as it is beautiful for its uniqueness. Beauty marks, freckles, and curly hair can all be something that sets you apart from every other woman in the room.”
2. Wear tailored clothing. “Fussy/frilly clothing tends to look “sloppy” as we get older. Tailored clothing provides structure to help create a proportional silhouette. You can draw attention towards your best assets through proper tailoring. Invest to ensure that your core wardrobe fits your figure impeccably. You will be able to create multiple looks combining those timeless pieces with the latest “in fashion” accessories to achieve a current polished look.
3. Invest in good basics. Conlin says,“These are must-haves for any woman’s closet… black trouser, dark wash jean, charcoal pencil skirt, versatile separates jacket, white blouse, black two-inch belt for waist, V-neck cashmere sweater in a flattering color, white t-shirt, neutral colored mid-weight trench, printed scarf, black ankle boots, and black mid-heeled pumps with a soft point.”
4. Exude confidence and femininity. Self-confidence is the finishing touch for any look. Femininity is about showing off your creative, passionate side. Hutton is not afraid of being noticed. The older women get, the more we see them covering themselves up. The best look we can carry is a confident, positive attitude. “Be proud and confident in who you have become as a women, and don’t be afraid to show off your defining qualities,” adds Conlin.
5. Keep it simple. Known for her natural beauty, Hutton always looks like she pulled herself together effortlessly. Referring to the modeling industry, Hutton said, “I think I made it more natural, as I used less makeup. The makeup was very heavy in those days and I looked bad in a lot of makeup.” Being more natural by using less makeup keeps her look authentic.
Following these five tips will give a more elegant-chic look at any age that will never go out of style.
About Jackie Conlin
Jackie Conlin is a professional image consultant, teaching men and women alike how to develop and maintain their authentic personal style. She taps into each client’s potential and guides them through a process to help them put their best look forward. She understands the importance of looking good and how that directly relates to a positive self image. Having a positive self image can give you the boost you need to go after life’s opportunities and your dreams.
Jackie transitioned from a successful retail career, including being an in-house personal shopper for Saks Fifth Avenue, to owning and operating one of the most highly regarded Image Consulting Companies in the Bay Area. She has distinguished herself in the industry for nearly a decade and has an extensive, diverse clientele.
Her clients range from busy professionals, harried moms, dating singles, recent graduates, etc…they come from all walks of life, represent all sizes and age groups. Though diverse, her clients have one thing in common; they have decided to make a personal investment in themselves and in their appearance because they realize the value it can add to their lives. ”Whether we like it or not, people make assumptions about us based on how we look. It is important that the way we look represents who we are inside. It is my job to help the outside agree with the inside…the passions, the spirit, and the essence.”
More information on Jackie can be found at: www.jackieconlin.com.
Savvy Style: Beauty Sleep – Make the Most of Your Zzzzz’s
By Chaton Anderson ~
It’s not called beauty sleep for nothing. Nighttime is when our body, skin and hair repairs and rejuvenates itself—so why not give yourself a little help in this department? There are myriad products that make it easy to enhance our natural system and yield dramatic antiaging results. It’s the perfect time to mend stressed-out skin, eliminate puffy eyes and dark circles, and give your hair some TLC to undo some of the daily damage from styling. Below are some products to help you sleep your way to gorgeous.
Luxe Out Your Dream Space
Create a luxurious dream environment with this Purusa Dream Extract. A unique blend of Sandalwood, amber, Bergamot and organic Clary Sage from France makes for a deliciously fresh spray to mist your sheets, pillows and clothes—it evokes sleep-inducing calm followed by sweet dreams. Available at www.sebastiansigns.com, $26.
Break the Case
Ever wake up with major creases on one side of your face? Antiaging experts confirm that permanent lines are caused by your face pressing against the pillow while you sleep. Look to one of the oldest tricks in the book for a quick fix—silk or satin pillowcases. Not only do they make your bed feel luxe, they prevent wrinkles and hair breakage, and combat the dreaded bedhead. Comfort Silkie has a beautiful line in a wide range of colors that are absolutely reasonable at only $20 per case. www.comfortsilkie.com.
Take it to the next level with The Wrinkle Prevention Pillow by About Face. Made with high quality, memory foam and encased in luxurious silk, this innovative pillow has a contoured center to make sleeping on your back feel more comfortable and natural. Once you turn on or to your side or stomach, it comfortably cradles, lifts and supports your head and neck so your face doesn’t get pressed into the pillow. Night creams, serums and other products won’t run off while you’re sleeping, so it truly lets you makes the most of your skincare products. Widely endorsed by experts in the beauty and skincare industry, it also comes in pretty, feminine colors, as well as a version made with hypo-allergenic polyfill. Available at www.wrinklepreventionpillow.com.
Deflate the Puff
Wake up looking rested by applying a caffeine-packed eye cream before going to sleep. A good one to try is 100% Pure Caffeine Eye Cream, $19. Since it’s nighttime and you’re not applying makeup, eye creams can seep deep into your skin to tighten and reduce bloating. If you still wake up with bags in the morning, gently massage the area around your eyes to stimulate blood flow and take down any swelling. Top with a cooled, drained green tea bag or chilled cucumber slice to reduce puffiness old school style.
Make Drab Strands Dazzle
Use your downtime to eliminate the frizzies with an ultra-conditioning mask. Look for overnight products such as L’Oréal Professionnel Liss Ultime Nuit Treatment or Kerastase Noctogenists Serum Nuit—they’re less messy than an in-the-shower mask. Apply to towel-dried hair and cover it with a shower cap to help the mask penetrate. When you wake up, skip the shampoo and just rinse for super soft, shiny locks. If you can’t stomach the mess that goes along with sleeping in a conditioner-drenched shower cap, try John Frieda Frizz-Ease Crème Serum Overnight Repair Formula.
Bioelements Overnight Rejuvenation Kit
Try a complete set like this to maximize the regeneration our skin experiences during sleep. Its cutting-edge products include Probotix Antiaging Serum, Sleepwear—packed with calcium, retinol, protein peptides and cranberry seed oil to strengthen and repair visible damage, Quick Refiner to smooth and refine, and Multi-Task Eye Creme to firm, de-puff, moisturize and reduce dark circles all in one step. www.bioelements.com.
Chaton Anderson is a Writer, Filmmaker and Fitness expert, as well as a product and pop culture addict. She is always looking for the coolest, hippest things on the market, as well as the newest health and fitness trends to hit the scene. E-mail her at Chaton@FusionIntegrated.com with questions or leads on products and services on the cutting edge.
Savvy Style: Who Wears the Pants Here? How to Treat Your Jeans Right
When I reach for my favorite pair of jeans, I never stop to think about how they came to be. Mostly I notice how they’re looking worse for the wear lately and that I need to buy a replacement pair—something many of us are gearing up to do these days, especially with the September issues of fashion magazines listing the seasonal must-haves. Just thumbing through the pages and seeing how much space these magazines devote to jeans—how to find the perfect fit, what brands are the hottest, and even how to care for them—it’s amazing that pants of such humble origins could carry that kind of importance. But to this day, no other item has become such a universal wardrobe staple as a good pair of blue jeans.
An American Institution with European Origins
Jeans are widely accepted as one of the most prominent symbols of American culture, but they got their start in Europe and didn’t reach the U.S. until the Gold Rush, when a man named Leob Strauss moved to California to open a branch of his brother’s fabric business in San Francisco. At the time, there was a huge demand among gold miners for work pants that could withstand a lot of wear and tear, so he began producing pants instead and a fashion mainstay was born. Years later, cinematic cowboy culture and idols like James Dean and Elvis made jeans cool and anti-establishment. When they were embraced by hippies in the ’60s and ’70s, it only solidified that status. By the 1990s, a multitude of styles and brands—everything from discount to designer, perfectly tailored to ripped, light blue to the darkest black—were readily available for the masses.
The Biggest Problem: Breaking Them In
Jeans have come a long way in their years, going from a worker’s uniform to the must-have article of clothing worn by the young, old, rich, poor, and everyone in between. But despite numerous brands on the market pumping out hundreds of different designs, none of them have solved the eternal question—how do you properly break in a pair of jeans? Even the “worn out” styles particularly popular these days don’t immediately have that comfortable feeling we all seek. So what’s the secret to making new or freshly-washed jeans feel like they’re made for you?
Many people I know (myself included) prefer the squat method—doing squats and leg bends until the jeans feel less constrictive. One woman I know does lunges back and forth across her room. But according to Real Simple magazine, the best way to break in jeans is to wash them (cold water retains the color), pull them from the dryer when they’re still slightly damp, and wear them. That’s the best way to get the jeans to adapt to your natural shape. If they’re still too stiff, try throwing them in the dryer with a few clean pairs of sneakers to soften the fabric.
Cleanliness Without Destruction
There’s a lot of debate about the proper method for washing jeans. When I told my friend I put them in the dryer, she was aghast, claiming the only way to deal with dirty jeans was to soak them and then line-dry them. Generally, the preferred way to clean jeans is to wash them inside out in cold water, throwing in a little vinegar if you want to make the color last longer. And while letting them complete an entire cycle in the dryer can shrink them (oops!), throwing them in there until they’re only damp is recommended.
Once they’re at that state, hang them up to finish drying. Apparently heat is what destroys jeans, so if you’re planning on ironing them, only do it when they’re still damp. To ensure they look as good as the day you bought them, try dry cleaning or washing them as infrequently as possible. In fact, some believe you should prolong the first wash for as long as possible; one brand even recommends as long as six months!
Putting Them Out to Pasture
As hard as it is to say goodbye to a beloved pair of jeans, there are certain factors—crotch holes and unfortunate stains, for example—that warrant retirement. But that doesn’t automatically mean throwing them out. Denim is a durable, versatile fabric that needn’t be wasted, especially when there are many ways to utilize it. The Internet’s a great resource for fun crafting projects, but here are a few of my favorites.
- Use the material to make a quilt. My friend’s grandmother did this with his childhood jeans and crafted the best beach blanket ever.
- Denim also works great for potholders, purses, book covers, protectors for MP3 players, tote bags, and so forth. These make great gifts, too!
- Create a whole new outfit—turn jeans into skirts, shorts, and aprons, or use the fabric as patchwork for jackets, hoodies, and other clothing pieces.
Even as I’m cursing designers in a department store dressing room because the ten pairs of jeans I brought in with me—all the same size, mind you—all fit drastically differently, I can’t help but marvel at this simple article’s important place in the world. Somehow, what started as one man’s fabric business dream became the essential bottom half of outfits worn around the world. It’s remarkable how a little ingenuity and determination can affect style so dramatically. Now if only they could figure out how to make jeans comfortable right off the rack and make each size standard across all brands. Oh, to dream the impossible dream.
Originally published at DivineCaroline.com by Vicki Santillano.
Savvy Style: Holiday Must-Haves
By Chaton Anderson ~
Stylish Gifts That Won’t Be Re-Gifted
Here we are again—scrambling to find the perfect gift, the one that makes you look just like the superwoman you are. We’re making it easy this year by giving you some ideas that are unique and show just the right amount of thought. You might even find something for yourself—you know you deserve it!
For the Stylish Yogi
Yogahitch
Your favorite yogi will love this imaginative and practical gift! Invented by mompreneur Alycia Denham, this innovative yoga product gives you a stylish and efficient way to carry your mat around. Available in a vibrant range of colors and cool collections with names like Zen, Now and Couture, this ideal yoga accessory can also be used as a towel, cushion or for stretching. www.YogaHitch.com
For the Indulgent One
Lumnique Scented Candles
These are not just any candles—these babies provide unique, customized touches that set your gift apart from the rest. Each of Lumnique’s scented candles are personalized, tailored, and hand-poured for an individual purpose that you decide upon. You can choose its color and fragrance, and tie each one to a special meaning or “intention.” The site’s cool online shop lets you build the candle from scratch, or choose from an array of cleverly formulated holiday specialties, such as “Let it Snow,” “Silent Night,” “Gingerbread Man,” or “Mistletoe Glow,” among others. There’s even a Chanukah blend called “Graceful Light.” A stellar way to truly convey the thought you’ve put into someone’s gift. www.Lumnique.com
For the Health-Conscious
House of Balsamic’s Aged Bottles of Balsamic Vinegar
Skip the bottle of wine or bubbly this year in lieu of a bottle of aged balsamic vinegar. Only 100 families in the world are approved to formulate “traditional” Balsamic Vinegars from Modena, so these creations by House of Balsamic make for a rare and amazing gift. Go big with a bottle aged for 100 years in century-old barrels, with notes of wood, tobacco and fruits. The simplest drizzle transforms a meal into a masterpiece and effects incredible health benefits. Also available in 12, 25, 50 and 80-year old bottles, each with an exquisite, full-bodied taste and velvety texture. www.HouseofBalsamic.com.
For the Beauty Queen
Philosophy Holiday Greetings Set Holiday Greetings Set
Philosophy’s products deliver great results and feel absolutely decadent! This year, they’ve got a great set of holiday treats for the hair, body, and lips, inspired by holiday cookies. This trio includes a yummy smelling, moisturizing Brown Butter Cookie Shampoo, Shower Gel & Bubble Bath, a luxuriously hydrating Coconut Macaroon Body Lotion, and uber glossy Pink Frosted Cookie Lip Shine. We’re hungry just thinking about it. www.Philosophy.com
CND’s Almond SpaManicure Snuggle Set
This awesome package contains deliciously scented Almond Hydrating lotion, a bottle of renowned SolarOil nail and cuticle conditioner, plus a pair of buttery soft toeless socks for those chilly winter pedicures. The perfect treat to undo the damage from all the baking, gift wrapping and tree trimming the holidays bring about. CND also has a really cool Scentsations Sparkling Champagne Gift Duo that includes body wash and lotion in a seasonal Sparkling Champagne fragrance that almost gives you a buzz. The gift set includes a handy purse hook to keep one’s handbag within reach. www.CND.com.
For the Plastic Surgery Addict
Ultimate Facercise DVD
It may be too late for Heidi Montag, but anti-aging expert Carole Maggio can still save the rest of us from frozen foreheads, overfilled cheeks and that oh-so-surprised look. Maggio took her original set of synergistic facial exercises up a notch with her new Ultimate Facercise DVD. The DVD offers 13 fine-tuned facial exercises that offer quick ways to fight gravity while toning and firming your pretty face, as well as an 8 Minute Super Set for those days when you’re at the mercy of time. The DVD set includes one instructional DVD and one CD, a second CD with the 8 Minute Super Set and Travel Cards so you can stick to your regimen during that next vacation or business trip. www.Facercise.com.
For the Intelligentsia
Dannijo iPad and iPhone Cases
Give your favorite geek a stylish twist with Dannijo’s savvy and psychedelic iPad cases. These trippy prints are overlaid on fitted, organic canvases that garner street cred with the stoner set while keeping gear safe. www.Dannijo.com
Pop Culture Pencils
Quirky pencils with funny comments that ask all those questions you always wanted to. You know the ones, like “Why It’s Time for Lost to End” or “Why You Should Be Thanking Me” and so on. Perfect for the pop culture aficionado. www.GreenwichLetterPress.com
For the Domestic Diva
Fire Water Fondue Tower
This sleek and luscious creation is absolutely droolworthy, perfect for any chocolate lover. It’s a sexy way to sweeten up a party, date or girl’s night in—complete with a candle holder to melt the goods, two fondue bowls, two fondue forks, and a recipe card to give you some guidance. www.MaxBrenner.com
Doughnut Maker
Forget toasters and waffle irons. This kitschy appliance is super cute and yields five cakey doughnuts in just five minutes. www.Sunbeam.com
Chaton Anderson is a Writer and Filmmaker, a certified Trainer and Fitness expert, as well as a product and pop culture addict. She is always looking for the coolest, hippest things on the market, as well as the newest health and fitness trends to hit the scene. E-mail her at Chaton@FusionIntegrated.com with questions or leads on products and services on the cutting edge.
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